Active in the BDSM for many years, I am a Gay man happy to see men and women of all ages, colours, creeds and sexualities. Especially for women, I can have a female present to assist Me if that brings added reassurance but I hope that being Gay is reassurance enough; it’s totally up to you and what makes you feel the most comfortable.

BDSM is my way of life and I recognise that it is primarily about having fun and being who you wish to be. But it can also be extremely valuable and therapeutic in subtle ways. See my posts and Blog for more on this aspect of the life.